Today is a simple message. Five years ago, hell even one year ago, I never would have thought I’d be saying that I’m the happiest I have ever been.
It’s not that my narcissist and his attorney don’t try their hardest to make my life miserable, they do. It’s that I truly severed my ties. I am in a no contact zone. I feel loved, safe and have surrounded myself with amazing people who live the same mindset I do. That mindset is that we all just need to be kind to one another.
So today, I wished my family and cousins and friends Happy Thanksgiving and then I sent my narcissist an email that said, “Happy Thanksgiving and many blessings to you and “P” (the girlfriend). No matter what, I am thankful for my time with you because I can appreciate the life I am living now and without each other, we wouldn’t have 2 amazing young men as sons.” I meant it. I do not expect a response and I expect the trying to control me to continue. But my choice is to live pure of heart and be kind and today, I consciously made that choice.