What does it take to make you blossom and grow in a relationship?
I think that often we go into relationships not knowing what we need and that our expectations are far too high for another person to meet.
I’m a pretty basic person. You need to water me. For me that is communication. I need fertilizer. Tell me you love me, care about me and miss me. You need to give me sun. That would be your presence in my life and if you really want me to blossom, approach me with a passion for love and life.
Before moving into another relationship, especially after being in an abusive one where someone has been dictating how you should feel and controlling you to make you feel a certain way, it is important to know what YOU want for yourself. Not your Mom, not the ex-narc’s expectations or anyone else’s. YOURS. This is your life and your journey.
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